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Sunday, February 5, 2012
Wednesday, February 1, 2012
Talk is cheap ©
Talk is cheap!
Yes it is.
Tons of people daily surf the net, stumble upon business opportunities and where provided, check the following regarding their goals and aspirations:
Financial independence
Spend more quality time with the family
Possibility to work from home
Extra income
International business
Improve lifestyle
Possibility to be in the top 5%
Become own boss
Tons of people are given the opportunity to engage with an experienced entrepreneur, telephonically, on e-mail, in person to get started in a meaningful, sustainable and serious business, but only a handful go beyond checking the boxes and submitting the info. Not even a handful every day.
Becoming financially successful, working successfully from home, improving lifestyle, being your own boss, possibility of being in the top 5% .... all of these require WORK. They require action, they require guts, they require mental fortitude, they require commitment, they require decisions. They require more than just wishful thinking.
Most people want some or all of the above. Most people talk about it but talk is cheap. It easier to keep oneself in a less-than-ideal state and remain dissatisfied with life, and moan about it, than it is to actually get up and do something about it.
Don't be like countless flat squirrels on the highway who couldn't make up their minds.
Take action now
Now is the time. This is the place. The world is falling apart. Do you really need to be on that track or will you do something different and give yourself a chance to achieve financial independence. to be your own boss, to spend more quality time with your family ......
Now is the time. This is the place. Go to this site. Fill in the little form and then engage with the person who will get in touch with you.
And watch your life change.
© Beba Papakyriakou 16.3.2011
beba.papak@gmail.com
www.prosperity-thru-wellness.com/
Monday, January 30, 2012
How to master your financial destiny, by Jafree Ozwald
"Life in itself is an empty canvas; it becomes whatsoever you paint on it.
You can paint misery, you can paint bliss. This freedom is your glory." ~Osho
I remember many times in my life I believed I was not "destined" for great things. My mind was trained to entertain ideas like, "Making money was for fools, and that money was the root of all evil." Sure enough, I manifested some pretty frustrating financial situations from these negative beliefs. At one point I felt so financially stuck that it felt like I was constantly drowning from the inside. Every morning it seemed I was swimming in some frantic financial "doggie-paddle" just to stay afloat and pay the bills to get by.
Then it happened one day in mid-paddle... I surrendered to my drowning experience and realized something deeply profound. I was creating everything. I understood that I was the one choosing how I related with my financial situation. I saw that had a choice in how I approached my feelings about money. I realized that I could simply invent a NEW relationship with it, one that was based on freedom, abundance and self-worth. I could decide to stop letting myself feel this feeling of struggling to survive.
I knew that I manifesting the same financial challenges every year, not because of my lack of effort, yet simply because I was wasn't willing to explore and shift my personal relationship with money. The moment I looked inside and saw my thinking habits for what they were, I changed the way I related to money. I created a relationship that was empowering and felt good! I knew that those electrons in the bank account didn't actually give me real power, purpose or fulfillment. I was responsible for giving myself those experiences. I knew that nothing real came from the outer world. It was from this understanding that I became financially free and realized I was the master of my financial destiny.
"Find God. This is your mission. You are the center of the Universe. Your center is God, Consciousness, Absolute Reality, Perfection, Brahman. This is the only piece that exists. You have absolutely nothing to give up, nothing to surrender, nothing to let go of. You are already liberated." ~Robert Adams
People always ask me what my definition of financial freedom is. Usually I respond with, "The one who spends the least amount of time thinking about money is the most financially free." If you have tons of money and yet are always thinking about it, worried it may disappear one day, how financially free are you really? If you feel like you never have enough money and you're always thinking, hoping and wishing you had more, you're living in a prison as well. The secret to creating a highly empowered relationship with money starts with letting go of your attachment to it. Find something that is always going to be bigger than money or power to devote your life to. People who chase after money are living from ego, craving status or power. It is a big trap and void of any spiritual reward. The only way you can be free from the money trap is to relate to it from a place of joy and effortless ease. It's actually quite easy to shift your financial frequency when you get clear about your priorities in life. Below is a short financial blessing I wrote for you to read to yourself every morning. Notice what happens to your body when you breeze through it one time.
I now let go of any limiting beliefs stopping me from accepting the feeling of financial freedom. My word represents my power and when I am 100% true to my word and walk my talk today, I can expect my every word to manifest into physical form. I am truly blessed and grateful for all that I have received and for the great abundance that is still to come. There are many seeds planted inside me that are growing and pouring endless financial prosperity onto my life. I always have enough money. I am thankful for all that has been given to me and all that is constantly flowing to me. I am blessed with this life and able to receive all the wealth I want and need now. I trust there is a divine creative genius inside me who is manifesting all the abundance I need. I know that I am deeply loved.
The reality is that money is just energy and that there is an infinite supply of it. The world will always be creating more money everyday. If you think there's not enough of it, or that you're taking more than "your share" of money, you're simply living in the illusion of poverty consciousness. Sure money doesn't grow on trees, yet neither does milk. You have to get out of bed and go outside and milk that cow if you want to drink it. The money that you physically receive will grow the more frequently you take action on inspiration. The most inspired creative ideas you have about contributing to the whole of humanity yield the highest monetary benefit. If you can make a million people happy you will be rewarded greatly for that. You must however be open to receiving your gift in the form of a financial blessing. This is where many people get stuck as they've spent so much emphasis on not ever having enough money that when it actually comes, they don't feel worthy enough to receive it physically.
"No great thing is created suddenly, any more than a bunch of grapes or a fig. If you tell me that you desire a fig,
I answer you that there must be time. Let it first blossom, then bear fruit, then ripen." ~Epictetus
The secret to letting a massive flow (or trickle) of abundance pour through your life starts with letting go of fear. If you're reacting to life in any form of fear, you are blocking the flow of currency. How you relate with people in life deeply impacts your relationship with money. If you only choose to feel gratitude for your life, it will be easy for you to feel financially free, rich and alive! Start noticing the small things that you have going for you. These are your "riches", which are providing your base for feeling abundant right now. There are millions of people on this planet who have far far less than you. You are extraordinarily rich in their eyes. You are already living like a God or Goddess compared to them. This abundance that you have is real, and when you can see how much luxury you actually have, you will start shifting your understanding to one of constant gratitude instead of a perpetual complaint. As your relationship with money moves into a cycle of increasing gratitude, you'll start manifesting abundance from every corner and avenue in your outer world.
If you really want to, you will become the financial master of your destiny one day. When you master your inner world, you will master your outer world and truly transform your financial destiny. You may have to stretch your imagination to connect with this intention the first time, yet its worth taking time to do it. The more you can meditate, bring the mind to absolute stillness, then and only then do you have any mastery over it. Then you are conscious enough to choose to entertain expansive joyful sensations about money. When you are sooooo super conscious of the thoughts that enter your brain all day long, you can ignore the ones that make you feel financially stuck or unworthy. This acute awareness is the first essential key to mastering your financial destiny and discovering a more enlightened state of being. By Jafree Ozwald
http://www.enlightenedbeings.com/
Your date with destiny. Make your dreams come true in 2012
http://www.prosperity-thru-wellness.com/
http://www.wellness-thru-prosperity.com/
http://www.houseofbeesting.com/
http://www.lulu.com/spotlight/bebap
http://www.facebook.com/pages/Wellness-thru-Prosperity/176756739006790
http://bebap.myonlinebizblog.com/
http://bebap.myonlinebizblog.com/blog
http://www.get-this-bebasblog.blogspot.com/
You can paint misery, you can paint bliss. This freedom is your glory." ~Osho
I remember many times in my life I believed I was not "destined" for great things. My mind was trained to entertain ideas like, "Making money was for fools, and that money was the root of all evil." Sure enough, I manifested some pretty frustrating financial situations from these negative beliefs. At one point I felt so financially stuck that it felt like I was constantly drowning from the inside. Every morning it seemed I was swimming in some frantic financial "doggie-paddle" just to stay afloat and pay the bills to get by.
Then it happened one day in mid-paddle... I surrendered to my drowning experience and realized something deeply profound. I was creating everything. I understood that I was the one choosing how I related with my financial situation. I saw that had a choice in how I approached my feelings about money. I realized that I could simply invent a NEW relationship with it, one that was based on freedom, abundance and self-worth. I could decide to stop letting myself feel this feeling of struggling to survive.
I knew that I manifesting the same financial challenges every year, not because of my lack of effort, yet simply because I was wasn't willing to explore and shift my personal relationship with money. The moment I looked inside and saw my thinking habits for what they were, I changed the way I related to money. I created a relationship that was empowering and felt good! I knew that those electrons in the bank account didn't actually give me real power, purpose or fulfillment. I was responsible for giving myself those experiences. I knew that nothing real came from the outer world. It was from this understanding that I became financially free and realized I was the master of my financial destiny.
"Find God. This is your mission. You are the center of the Universe. Your center is God, Consciousness, Absolute Reality, Perfection, Brahman. This is the only piece that exists. You have absolutely nothing to give up, nothing to surrender, nothing to let go of. You are already liberated." ~Robert Adams
People always ask me what my definition of financial freedom is. Usually I respond with, "The one who spends the least amount of time thinking about money is the most financially free." If you have tons of money and yet are always thinking about it, worried it may disappear one day, how financially free are you really? If you feel like you never have enough money and you're always thinking, hoping and wishing you had more, you're living in a prison as well. The secret to creating a highly empowered relationship with money starts with letting go of your attachment to it. Find something that is always going to be bigger than money or power to devote your life to. People who chase after money are living from ego, craving status or power. It is a big trap and void of any spiritual reward. The only way you can be free from the money trap is to relate to it from a place of joy and effortless ease. It's actually quite easy to shift your financial frequency when you get clear about your priorities in life. Below is a short financial blessing I wrote for you to read to yourself every morning. Notice what happens to your body when you breeze through it one time.
I now let go of any limiting beliefs stopping me from accepting the feeling of financial freedom. My word represents my power and when I am 100% true to my word and walk my talk today, I can expect my every word to manifest into physical form. I am truly blessed and grateful for all that I have received and for the great abundance that is still to come. There are many seeds planted inside me that are growing and pouring endless financial prosperity onto my life. I always have enough money. I am thankful for all that has been given to me and all that is constantly flowing to me. I am blessed with this life and able to receive all the wealth I want and need now. I trust there is a divine creative genius inside me who is manifesting all the abundance I need. I know that I am deeply loved.
The reality is that money is just energy and that there is an infinite supply of it. The world will always be creating more money everyday. If you think there's not enough of it, or that you're taking more than "your share" of money, you're simply living in the illusion of poverty consciousness. Sure money doesn't grow on trees, yet neither does milk. You have to get out of bed and go outside and milk that cow if you want to drink it. The money that you physically receive will grow the more frequently you take action on inspiration. The most inspired creative ideas you have about contributing to the whole of humanity yield the highest monetary benefit. If you can make a million people happy you will be rewarded greatly for that. You must however be open to receiving your gift in the form of a financial blessing. This is where many people get stuck as they've spent so much emphasis on not ever having enough money that when it actually comes, they don't feel worthy enough to receive it physically.
"No great thing is created suddenly, any more than a bunch of grapes or a fig. If you tell me that you desire a fig,
I answer you that there must be time. Let it first blossom, then bear fruit, then ripen." ~Epictetus
The secret to letting a massive flow (or trickle) of abundance pour through your life starts with letting go of fear. If you're reacting to life in any form of fear, you are blocking the flow of currency. How you relate with people in life deeply impacts your relationship with money. If you only choose to feel gratitude for your life, it will be easy for you to feel financially free, rich and alive! Start noticing the small things that you have going for you. These are your "riches", which are providing your base for feeling abundant right now. There are millions of people on this planet who have far far less than you. You are extraordinarily rich in their eyes. You are already living like a God or Goddess compared to them. This abundance that you have is real, and when you can see how much luxury you actually have, you will start shifting your understanding to one of constant gratitude instead of a perpetual complaint. As your relationship with money moves into a cycle of increasing gratitude, you'll start manifesting abundance from every corner and avenue in your outer world.
If you really want to, you will become the financial master of your destiny one day. When you master your inner world, you will master your outer world and truly transform your financial destiny. You may have to stretch your imagination to connect with this intention the first time, yet its worth taking time to do it. The more you can meditate, bring the mind to absolute stillness, then and only then do you have any mastery over it. Then you are conscious enough to choose to entertain expansive joyful sensations about money. When you are sooooo super conscious of the thoughts that enter your brain all day long, you can ignore the ones that make you feel financially stuck or unworthy. This acute awareness is the first essential key to mastering your financial destiny and discovering a more enlightened state of being. By Jafree Ozwald
http://www.enlightenedbeings.com/
Your date with destiny. Make your dreams come true in 2012
http://www.prosperity-thru-wellness.com/
http://www.wellness-thru-prosperity.com/
http://www.houseofbeesting.com/
http://www.lulu.com/spotlight/bebap
http://www.facebook.com/pages/Wellness-thru-Prosperity/176756739006790
http://bebap.myonlinebizblog.com/
http://bebap.myonlinebizblog.com/blog
http://www.get-this-bebasblog.blogspot.com/
Thursday, January 19, 2012
Blackout - save the internet today
http://www.avaaz.org/en/save_the_internet_action_center_b/?cl=1514336530&v=12083
The US Congress was poised to pass a law allowing officials to censor access to any website around the world. But after we delivered our 1.25 million strong petition to the White House, it came out against the bill and with public pressure at a boiling point even some bill backers are switching sides. Now, the Wikipedia - led blackout protest has rocketed the public campaign to the top of the news.
We are turning the tide. But the dark forces of censorship are trying to revive the bill right now. Let’s bury it for good today. Click to sign this emergency petition to save the Internet now and if you've signed already, to email, call, Facebook, and tweet Congressional and corporate targets. Then send this to everyone:
http://www.avaaz.org/en/save_the_internet_action_center_b/?vl
The bill would make the US one of the worst Internet censors in the world -- joining the ranks of countries like China and Iran. The Stop Online Piracy Act (SOPA) and PROTECT IP Act (PIPA) would allow the US government to block any of us from accessing sites like YouTube, Google, or Facebook.
We got the White House to switch sides and now our global campaign and the growing public pressure is forcing Congress to abandon the bill. Last weekend, Senator Cardin, who cosponsored the legislation, announced he will vote against it! Then six prominent Republicans penned a letter requesting that the bill be shelved. Now the lower house vote is reportedly on ice.
Just days ago we were told it was impossible to stop the corporate censorship cabal, but now this is at a tipping point and amazingly we could win! Let’s stop US censorship today. Sign this emergency petition to save the internet now and forward it to everyone:
http://www.avaaz.org/en/save_the_internet_action_center_b/?vl
This US legislation could infringe on all of our freedoms. But if we win, we will show that when people unite with one voice from all over the world we can stop the abuse of power anywhere. We have brought this bill back from the brink. Now, if we amplify our voices today, we can put an end to the most powerful Internet censorship threat that the world has ever seen.
With hope,
Dalia, Ian, Alice, Ricken, Diego, David, and the Avaaz Team
Sources:
White House statement:
https://secure.avaaz.org/whitehouse_internet_statement
Wikipedia joins web blackout in SOPA protest (BBC):
http://www.avaaz.org/bbc_sopa_wikipedia
American Censorship's fact sheet on SOPA:
http://americancensorship.org/infographic.html
Everything you need to know about Congress's online piracy bills in one post (Washington Post):
http://www.washingtonpost.com/blogs/ezra-klein/post/everything-you-need-to-know-about-congresss-online-piracy-bills-in-one-post/2011/12/16/gIQAz4ggyO_blog.html
SOPA and PIPA sponsors caving in to opposition (Talking Points Memo):
http://idealab.talkingpointsmemo.com/2012/01/sopa-and-pipa-sponsors-caving-into-opposition.php
White House will not support SOPA, PIPA (Huffington Post):
http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2012/01/14/white-house-sopa-pipa_n_1206347.html
Controversial online piracy bill ‘shelved’ until consensus is found (The Hill):
http://thehill.com/blogs/hillicon-valley/technology/204167-sopa-shelved-until-consensus-is-found
Your date with destiny. Make your dreams come true in 2012
http://www.prosperity-thru-wellness.com/
http://www.wellness-thru-prosperity.com/
http://www.houseofbeesting.com/
http://www.lulu.com/spotlight/bebap
http://www.facebook.com/pages/Wellness-thru-Prosperity/176756739006790
http://bebap.myonlinebizblog.com/
http://bebap.myonlinebizblog.com/blog
The US Congress was poised to pass a law allowing officials to censor access to any website around the world. But after we delivered our 1.25 million strong petition to the White House, it came out against the bill and with public pressure at a boiling point even some bill backers are switching sides. Now, the Wikipedia - led blackout protest has rocketed the public campaign to the top of the news.
We are turning the tide. But the dark forces of censorship are trying to revive the bill right now. Let’s bury it for good today. Click to sign this emergency petition to save the Internet now and if you've signed already, to email, call, Facebook, and tweet Congressional and corporate targets. Then send this to everyone:
http://www.avaaz.org/en/save_the_internet_action_center_b/?vl
The bill would make the US one of the worst Internet censors in the world -- joining the ranks of countries like China and Iran. The Stop Online Piracy Act (SOPA) and PROTECT IP Act (PIPA) would allow the US government to block any of us from accessing sites like YouTube, Google, or Facebook.
We got the White House to switch sides and now our global campaign and the growing public pressure is forcing Congress to abandon the bill. Last weekend, Senator Cardin, who cosponsored the legislation, announced he will vote against it! Then six prominent Republicans penned a letter requesting that the bill be shelved. Now the lower house vote is reportedly on ice.
Just days ago we were told it was impossible to stop the corporate censorship cabal, but now this is at a tipping point and amazingly we could win! Let’s stop US censorship today. Sign this emergency petition to save the internet now and forward it to everyone:
http://www.avaaz.org/en/save_the_internet_action_center_b/?vl
This US legislation could infringe on all of our freedoms. But if we win, we will show that when people unite with one voice from all over the world we can stop the abuse of power anywhere. We have brought this bill back from the brink. Now, if we amplify our voices today, we can put an end to the most powerful Internet censorship threat that the world has ever seen.
With hope,
Dalia, Ian, Alice, Ricken, Diego, David, and the Avaaz Team
Sources:
White House statement:
https://secure.avaaz.org/whitehouse_internet_statement
Wikipedia joins web blackout in SOPA protest (BBC):
http://www.avaaz.org/bbc_sopa_wikipedia
American Censorship's fact sheet on SOPA:
http://americancensorship.org/infographic.html
Everything you need to know about Congress's online piracy bills in one post (Washington Post):
http://www.washingtonpost.com/blogs/ezra-klein/post/everything-you-need-to-know-about-congresss-online-piracy-bills-in-one-post/2011/12/16/gIQAz4ggyO_blog.html
SOPA and PIPA sponsors caving in to opposition (Talking Points Memo):
http://idealab.talkingpointsmemo.com/2012/01/sopa-and-pipa-sponsors-caving-into-opposition.php
White House will not support SOPA, PIPA (Huffington Post):
http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2012/01/14/white-house-sopa-pipa_n_1206347.html
Controversial online piracy bill ‘shelved’ until consensus is found (The Hill):
http://thehill.com/blogs/hillicon-valley/technology/204167-sopa-shelved-until-consensus-is-found
Your date with destiny. Make your dreams come true in 2012
http://www.prosperity-thru-wellness.com/
http://www.wellness-thru-prosperity.com/
http://www.houseofbeesting.com/
http://www.lulu.com/spotlight/bebap
http://www.facebook.com/pages/Wellness-thru-Prosperity/176756739006790
http://bebap.myonlinebizblog.com/
http://bebap.myonlinebizblog.com/blog
Monday, January 16, 2012
30 things to stop doing to yourself
When you stop chasing the wrong things you give the right things a chance to catch you
As Maria Robinson once said, “Nobody can go back and start a new beginning, but anyone can start today and make a new ending.” Nothing could be closer to the truth. But before you can begin this process of transformation you have to stop doing the things that have been holding you back.
Here are some ideas to get you started:
1. Stop spending time with the wrong people. – Life is too short to spend time with people who suck the happiness out of you. If someone wants you in their life, they’ll make room for you. You shouldn’t have to fight for a spot. Never, ever insist yourself to someone who continuously overlooks your worth. And remember, it’s not the people that stand by your side when you’re at your best, but the ones who stand beside you when you’re at your worst that are your true friends.
2. Stop running from your problems. – Face them head on. No, it won’t be easy. There is no person in the world capable of flawlessly handling every punch thrown at them. We aren’t supposed to be able to instantly solve problems. That’s not how we’re made. In fact, we’re made to get upset, sad, hurt, stumble and fall. Because that’s the whole purpose of living – to face problems, learn, adapt, and solve them over the course of time. This is what ultimately molds us into the person we become.
3. Stop lying to yourself. – You can lie to anyone else in the world, but you can’t lie to yourself. Our lives improve only when we take chances, and the first and most difficult chance we can take is to be honest with ourselves. Read The Road Less Traveled.
4. Stop putting your own needs on the back burner. – The most painful thing is losing yourself in the process of loving someone too much, and forgetting that you are special too. Yes, help others; but help yourself too. If there was ever a moment to follow your passion and do something that matters to you, that moment is now.
5. Stop trying to be someone you’re not. – One of the greatest challenges in life is being yourself in a world that’s trying to make you like everyone else. Someone will always be prettier, someone will always be smarter, someone will always be younger, but they will never be you. Don’t change so people will like you. Be yourself and the right people will love the real you.
6. Stop trying to hold onto the past. – You can’t start the next chapter of your life if you keep re-reading your last one.
7. Stop being scared to make a mistake. – Doing something and getting it wrong is at least ten times more productive than doing nothing. Every success has a trail of failures behind it, and every failure is leading towards success. You end up regretting the things you did NOT do far more than the things you did.
8. Stop berating yourself for old mistakes. – We may love the wrong person and cry about the wrong things, but no matter how things go wrong, one thing is for sure, mistakes help us find the person and things that are right for us. We all make mistakes, have struggles, and even regret things in our past. But you are not your mistakes, you are not your struggles, and you are here NOW with the power to shape your day and your future. Every single thing that has ever happened in your life is preparing you for a moment that is yet to come.
9. Stop trying to buy happiness. – Many of the things we desire are expensive. But the truth is, the things that really satisfy us are totally free – love, laughter and working on our passions.
10. Stop exclusively looking to others for happiness. – If you’re not happy with who you are on the inside, you won’t be happy in a long-term relationship with anyone else either. You have to create stability in your own life first before you can share it with someone else. Read Stumbling on Happiness.
11. Stop being idle. – Don’t think too much or you’ll create a problem that wasn’t even there in the first place. Evaluate situations and take decisive action. You cannot change what you refuse to confront. Making progress involves risk. Period! You can’t make it to second base with your foot on first.
12. Stop thinking you’re not ready. – Nobody ever feels 100% ready when an opportunity arises. Because most great opportunities in life force us to grow beyond our comfort zones, which means we won’t feel totally comfortable at first.
13. Stop getting involved in relationships for the wrong reasons. – Relationships must be chosen wisely. It’s better to be alone than to be in bad company. There’s no need to rush. If something is meant to be, it will happen – in the right time, with the right person, and for the best reason. Fall in love when you’re ready, not when you’re lonely.
14. Stop rejecting new relationships just because old ones didn’t work. – In life you’ll realize that there is a purpose for everyone you meet. Some will test you, some will use you and some will teach you. But most importantly, some will bring out the best in you.
15. Stop trying to compete against everyone else. – Don’t worry about what others doing better than you. Concentrate on beating your own records every day. Success is a battle between YOU and YOURSELF only.
16. Stop being jealous of others. – Jealousy is the art of counting someone else’s blessings instead of your own. Ask yourself this: “What’s something I have that everyone wants?”
17. Stop complaining and feeling sorry for yourself. – Life’s curveballs are thrown for a reason – to shift your path in a direction that is meant for you. You may not see or understand everything the moment it happens, and it may be tough. But reflect back on those negative curveballs thrown at you in the past. You’ll often see that eventually they led you to a better place, person, state of mind, or situation. So smile! Let everyone know that today you are a lot stronger than you were yesterday, and you will be.
18. Stop holding grudges. – Don’t live your life with hate in your heart. You will end up hurting yourself more than the people you hate. Forgiveness is not saying, “What you did to me is okay.” It is saying, “I’m not going to let what you did to me ruin my happiness forever.” Forgiveness is the answer… let go, find peace, liberate yourself! And remember, forgiveness is not just for other people, it’s for you too. If you must, forgive yourself, move on and try to do better next time.
19. Stop letting others bring you down to their level. – Refuse to lower your standards to accommodate those who refuse to raise theirs.
20. Stop wasting time explaining yourself to others. – Your friends don’t need it and your enemies won’t believe it anyway. Just do what you know in your heart is right.
21. Stop doing the same things over and over without taking a break. – The time to take a deep breath is when you don’t have time for it. If you keep doing what you’re doing, you’ll keep getting what you’re getting. Sometimes you need to distance yourself to see things clearly.
22. Stop overlooking the beauty of small moments. – Enjoy the little things, because one day you may look back and discover they were the big things. The best portion of your life will be the small, nameless moments you spend smiling with someone who matters to you.
23. Stop trying to make things perfect. – The real world doesn’t reward perfectionists, it rewards people who get things done. Read Getting Things Done.
24. Stop following the path of least resistance. – Life is not easy, especially when you plan on achieving something worthwhile. Don’t take the easy way out. Do something extraordinary.
25. Stop acting like everything is fine if it isn’t. – It’s okay to fall apart for a little while. You don’t always have to pretend to be strong, and there is no need to constantly prove that everything is going well. You shouldn’t be concerned with what other people are thinking either – cry if you need to – it’s healthy to shed your tears. The sooner you do, the sooner you will be able to smile again.
26. Stop blaming others for your troubles. – The extent to which you can achieve your dreams depends on the extent to which you take responsibility for your life. When you blame others for what you’re going through, you deny responsibility – you give others power over that part of your life.
27. Stop trying to be everything to everyone. – Doing so is impossible, and trying will only burn you out. But making one person smile CAN change the world. Maybe not the whole world, but their world. So narrow your focus.
28. Stop worrying so much. – Worry will not strip tomorrow of its burdens, it will strip today of its joy. One way to check if something is worth mulling over is to ask yourself this question: “Will this matter in one year’s time? Three years? Five years?” If not, then it’s not worth worrying about.
29. Stop focusing on what you don’t want to happen. – Focus on what you do want to happen. Positive thinking is at the forefront of every great success story. If you awake every morning with the thought that something wonderful will happen in your life today, and you pay close attention, you’ll often find that you’re right.
30. Stop being ungrateful. – No matter how good or bad you have it, wake up each day thankful for your life. Someone somewhere else is desperately fighting for theirs. Instead of thinking about what you’re missing, try thinking about what you have that everyone else is missing
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As Maria Robinson once said, “Nobody can go back and start a new beginning, but anyone can start today and make a new ending.” Nothing could be closer to the truth. But before you can begin this process of transformation you have to stop doing the things that have been holding you back.
Here are some ideas to get you started:
1. Stop spending time with the wrong people. – Life is too short to spend time with people who suck the happiness out of you. If someone wants you in their life, they’ll make room for you. You shouldn’t have to fight for a spot. Never, ever insist yourself to someone who continuously overlooks your worth. And remember, it’s not the people that stand by your side when you’re at your best, but the ones who stand beside you when you’re at your worst that are your true friends.
2. Stop running from your problems. – Face them head on. No, it won’t be easy. There is no person in the world capable of flawlessly handling every punch thrown at them. We aren’t supposed to be able to instantly solve problems. That’s not how we’re made. In fact, we’re made to get upset, sad, hurt, stumble and fall. Because that’s the whole purpose of living – to face problems, learn, adapt, and solve them over the course of time. This is what ultimately molds us into the person we become.
3. Stop lying to yourself. – You can lie to anyone else in the world, but you can’t lie to yourself. Our lives improve only when we take chances, and the first and most difficult chance we can take is to be honest with ourselves. Read The Road Less Traveled.
4. Stop putting your own needs on the back burner. – The most painful thing is losing yourself in the process of loving someone too much, and forgetting that you are special too. Yes, help others; but help yourself too. If there was ever a moment to follow your passion and do something that matters to you, that moment is now.
5. Stop trying to be someone you’re not. – One of the greatest challenges in life is being yourself in a world that’s trying to make you like everyone else. Someone will always be prettier, someone will always be smarter, someone will always be younger, but they will never be you. Don’t change so people will like you. Be yourself and the right people will love the real you.
6. Stop trying to hold onto the past. – You can’t start the next chapter of your life if you keep re-reading your last one.
7. Stop being scared to make a mistake. – Doing something and getting it wrong is at least ten times more productive than doing nothing. Every success has a trail of failures behind it, and every failure is leading towards success. You end up regretting the things you did NOT do far more than the things you did.
8. Stop berating yourself for old mistakes. – We may love the wrong person and cry about the wrong things, but no matter how things go wrong, one thing is for sure, mistakes help us find the person and things that are right for us. We all make mistakes, have struggles, and even regret things in our past. But you are not your mistakes, you are not your struggles, and you are here NOW with the power to shape your day and your future. Every single thing that has ever happened in your life is preparing you for a moment that is yet to come.
9. Stop trying to buy happiness. – Many of the things we desire are expensive. But the truth is, the things that really satisfy us are totally free – love, laughter and working on our passions.
10. Stop exclusively looking to others for happiness. – If you’re not happy with who you are on the inside, you won’t be happy in a long-term relationship with anyone else either. You have to create stability in your own life first before you can share it with someone else. Read Stumbling on Happiness.
11. Stop being idle. – Don’t think too much or you’ll create a problem that wasn’t even there in the first place. Evaluate situations and take decisive action. You cannot change what you refuse to confront. Making progress involves risk. Period! You can’t make it to second base with your foot on first.
12. Stop thinking you’re not ready. – Nobody ever feels 100% ready when an opportunity arises. Because most great opportunities in life force us to grow beyond our comfort zones, which means we won’t feel totally comfortable at first.
13. Stop getting involved in relationships for the wrong reasons. – Relationships must be chosen wisely. It’s better to be alone than to be in bad company. There’s no need to rush. If something is meant to be, it will happen – in the right time, with the right person, and for the best reason. Fall in love when you’re ready, not when you’re lonely.
14. Stop rejecting new relationships just because old ones didn’t work. – In life you’ll realize that there is a purpose for everyone you meet. Some will test you, some will use you and some will teach you. But most importantly, some will bring out the best in you.
15. Stop trying to compete against everyone else. – Don’t worry about what others doing better than you. Concentrate on beating your own records every day. Success is a battle between YOU and YOURSELF only.
16. Stop being jealous of others. – Jealousy is the art of counting someone else’s blessings instead of your own. Ask yourself this: “What’s something I have that everyone wants?”
17. Stop complaining and feeling sorry for yourself. – Life’s curveballs are thrown for a reason – to shift your path in a direction that is meant for you. You may not see or understand everything the moment it happens, and it may be tough. But reflect back on those negative curveballs thrown at you in the past. You’ll often see that eventually they led you to a better place, person, state of mind, or situation. So smile! Let everyone know that today you are a lot stronger than you were yesterday, and you will be.
18. Stop holding grudges. – Don’t live your life with hate in your heart. You will end up hurting yourself more than the people you hate. Forgiveness is not saying, “What you did to me is okay.” It is saying, “I’m not going to let what you did to me ruin my happiness forever.” Forgiveness is the answer… let go, find peace, liberate yourself! And remember, forgiveness is not just for other people, it’s for you too. If you must, forgive yourself, move on and try to do better next time.
19. Stop letting others bring you down to their level. – Refuse to lower your standards to accommodate those who refuse to raise theirs.
20. Stop wasting time explaining yourself to others. – Your friends don’t need it and your enemies won’t believe it anyway. Just do what you know in your heart is right.
21. Stop doing the same things over and over without taking a break. – The time to take a deep breath is when you don’t have time for it. If you keep doing what you’re doing, you’ll keep getting what you’re getting. Sometimes you need to distance yourself to see things clearly.
22. Stop overlooking the beauty of small moments. – Enjoy the little things, because one day you may look back and discover they were the big things. The best portion of your life will be the small, nameless moments you spend smiling with someone who matters to you.
23. Stop trying to make things perfect. – The real world doesn’t reward perfectionists, it rewards people who get things done. Read Getting Things Done.
24. Stop following the path of least resistance. – Life is not easy, especially when you plan on achieving something worthwhile. Don’t take the easy way out. Do something extraordinary.
25. Stop acting like everything is fine if it isn’t. – It’s okay to fall apart for a little while. You don’t always have to pretend to be strong, and there is no need to constantly prove that everything is going well. You shouldn’t be concerned with what other people are thinking either – cry if you need to – it’s healthy to shed your tears. The sooner you do, the sooner you will be able to smile again.
26. Stop blaming others for your troubles. – The extent to which you can achieve your dreams depends on the extent to which you take responsibility for your life. When you blame others for what you’re going through, you deny responsibility – you give others power over that part of your life.
27. Stop trying to be everything to everyone. – Doing so is impossible, and trying will only burn you out. But making one person smile CAN change the world. Maybe not the whole world, but their world. So narrow your focus.
28. Stop worrying so much. – Worry will not strip tomorrow of its burdens, it will strip today of its joy. One way to check if something is worth mulling over is to ask yourself this question: “Will this matter in one year’s time? Three years? Five years?” If not, then it’s not worth worrying about.
29. Stop focusing on what you don’t want to happen. – Focus on what you do want to happen. Positive thinking is at the forefront of every great success story. If you awake every morning with the thought that something wonderful will happen in your life today, and you pay close attention, you’ll often find that you’re right.
30. Stop being ungrateful. – No matter how good or bad you have it, wake up each day thankful for your life. Someone somewhere else is desperately fighting for theirs. Instead of thinking about what you’re missing, try thinking about what you have that everyone else is missing
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Sunday, January 8, 2012
Feed your body, nurture your soul ©
Originally written for, and published on, MasterWorksHealing, Saturday, July 4, 2009
Countless people around the globe are living lives that are not complete, lives that are not developing to their fullest mental, spiritual and physical potential, lives that are characterized by lack rather than abundance. The late Wallace. D Wattles said, “There are 3 motives for which we live; we live for the body, we live for the mind, we live for the soul. No one of these is better or holier than the other; all are alike desirable and no one of the three – body, mind or soul – can fully live if either of the others is cut short of full life and expression. It is not right or noble to live only for the soul and deny mind or body; and it is wrong to live for the intellect and deny body or soul”.
The world has become malnourished. Our spiritual, mental, physical, financial/material, personal needs are not always being met. To address these needs, so many enlightened and generous people are doing unbelievable good by sharing their special gifts to help people raise their consciousness, raise their vibration, and live a life filled with all that goodness we want to make the most of ourselves.
As a novice enlightened individual doing what I can to raise my vibration and raise the quality of my life and that of others. I am helping many people around the world with their nutritional and their financial needs, one person at a time, one city at a time, one country at a time. Feed your body, attain wealth, and you nurture your soul.
Together with nearly 2 million other independent distributors, I am helping to feed people’s bodies and create true wealth by marketing the herbal products of a global premier nutrition & weight management company, one with an unparalleled business opportunity offering personalized support that focuses on customers’ and distributors’ unique needs, through innovation in weight-management, targeted nutrition, energy & fitness, sports nutrition plus outer nutrition products backed by world-renowned scientists. Together we are helping to contribute to the improvement of lives in (over) 80 countries on six continents by offering anyone, anywhere a successful business opportunity that empowers people to achieve their goals & ambitions.
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Countless people around the globe are living lives that are not complete, lives that are not developing to their fullest mental, spiritual and physical potential, lives that are characterized by lack rather than abundance. The late Wallace. D Wattles said, “There are 3 motives for which we live; we live for the body, we live for the mind, we live for the soul. No one of these is better or holier than the other; all are alike desirable and no one of the three – body, mind or soul – can fully live if either of the others is cut short of full life and expression. It is not right or noble to live only for the soul and deny mind or body; and it is wrong to live for the intellect and deny body or soul”.
The world has become malnourished. Our spiritual, mental, physical, financial/material, personal needs are not always being met. To address these needs, so many enlightened and generous people are doing unbelievable good by sharing their special gifts to help people raise their consciousness, raise their vibration, and live a life filled with all that goodness we want to make the most of ourselves.
As a novice enlightened individual doing what I can to raise my vibration and raise the quality of my life and that of others. I am helping many people around the world with their nutritional and their financial needs, one person at a time, one city at a time, one country at a time. Feed your body, attain wealth, and you nurture your soul.
Together with nearly 2 million other independent distributors, I am helping to feed people’s bodies and create true wealth by marketing the herbal products of a global premier nutrition & weight management company, one with an unparalleled business opportunity offering personalized support that focuses on customers’ and distributors’ unique needs, through innovation in weight-management, targeted nutrition, energy & fitness, sports nutrition plus outer nutrition products backed by world-renowned scientists. Together we are helping to contribute to the improvement of lives in (over) 80 countries on six continents by offering anyone, anywhere a successful business opportunity that empowers people to achieve their goals & ambitions.
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How to See Life With Abundance Vision by Jafree Ozwald
"When you are grateful, fear disappears and abundance appears.” ~Anthony Robbins
What kind of glasses are you wearing as you go through life? Are you wearing poverty consciousness glasses that only reflect back to you thoughts of lack, deprivation and financial challenge? Or are you wearing your Abundance Vision spectacles and experiencing an attitude of gratitude that truly recognizes the divine wealth throughout your day? We invite you to take this moment of your life right now, and get really curious about HOW you are usually seeing the world around you.
If you are wearing scarcity glasses, you are unknowingly focusing on what isn't working and worrying about what is missing or lacking in your life. As you see only what’s missing, your bodymind and emotions are permeated with the neuro-chemicals that create the experience of more fear, doubt, worry and scarcity. This creates a lower vibration in your body where you can only manifest experiences that reflect back that frequency of difficulty, poverty and lack.
The good news is that you can choose to take off your poverty glasses and exchange them in for NEW Abundance Vision! These super clear abundance glasses have powerful conscious lenses that allow you to perceive what is working, what you are thankful for, where you are successful in life, and to truly FEEL the awesome divine energy that surrounds you and permeates your very being. You no longer have to settle for a hard-working tough unloving life where you are just getting by. It is truly miraculous what manifests when you start seeing your world as a place that is full of joy and abundance.
As far as your financial situation, it doesn't really matter what has happened to you 10 years ago or what you were still struggling with yesterday. It doesn't matter if you have LOADS of money, are dirt poor, or are happy with just getting by. You can still step into abundance consciousness now and begin to FEEL that your life is rich and full of amazing opportunities. This FEELING will attract all the money and goodies you desire. It is O.K. to receive rich things. Even if you’ve never worked a hard day in your life, you DO deserve to take an abundant vacation. What matters most is that you DO NOT postpone another moment of your life and put on your abundance vision glasses today (and don’t take them off!)
Make this positive transformation right now by choosing to say “NO” to poverty thinking and focus on WHERE the abundance is in your life right now. It may surprise you to find that it is already here, flowing in several areas of your life. Remember that abundance comes in many forms. You can experience an abundance of love, support, creativity, laughter, friends, imagination, space, peacefulness, playfulness, energy, health, positive thinking, money, and the list goes on and on and on for infinity!
The surprising truth is that you naturally are the Spiritual Source of abundance itself. There are no limits on who you are, or who you can be. Your very essence is abundant in all ways. You, as an infinite timeless being, inherently embody an abundance of love, peace, strength, compassion, etc… Since you are abundance itself, all it takes to experience more abundance is to recognize and give thanks for all of the abundance that is already you. The more you become aware of your truly abundant inner nature, the more outer abundance will show up in your life. Once you realize and see how abundant you already are, you will be amazed at how quickly you will start to manifest even more abundance to you in the form of financial freedom, amazing relationships, incredible health, or tons of enthusiastic energy.
Your Enlightening Assignment: Set aside 20 minutes every day this week to practice this Abundance Vision exercise. Get out a piece of paper and write down all the different types of abundance that are in your life right now. Then, focus for the remaining time on how each one FEELS in your body when you think about it. Notice how good it feels to have each of these forms of abundance in your world. Allow yourself to feel expansive, rich and free your body with each form of abundance you find. The last 2 minutes of this exercise are spent in deep gratitude, thanking the Universe for providing all of this abundance. Enjoy! By Jafree Ozwald http://www.enlightenedmanifestor.com/ (This article and assignment is one of 52 in my NEW Enlightened Manifestor Program! Each piece has been polished, expanded and filled with the most practical down-to-earth awakening assignment to help you to utilize your natural manifesting powers. This program contains never before heard of manifesting meditations, enlightening information, and revolutionary techniques that will ignite the "Enlightened Manifestor" within you! This 52 week enlightenment program will uplift your consciousness and raise your vibration so you are effortlessly manifesting the life of your dreams)
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What kind of glasses are you wearing as you go through life? Are you wearing poverty consciousness glasses that only reflect back to you thoughts of lack, deprivation and financial challenge? Or are you wearing your Abundance Vision spectacles and experiencing an attitude of gratitude that truly recognizes the divine wealth throughout your day? We invite you to take this moment of your life right now, and get really curious about HOW you are usually seeing the world around you.
If you are wearing scarcity glasses, you are unknowingly focusing on what isn't working and worrying about what is missing or lacking in your life. As you see only what’s missing, your bodymind and emotions are permeated with the neuro-chemicals that create the experience of more fear, doubt, worry and scarcity. This creates a lower vibration in your body where you can only manifest experiences that reflect back that frequency of difficulty, poverty and lack.
The good news is that you can choose to take off your poverty glasses and exchange them in for NEW Abundance Vision! These super clear abundance glasses have powerful conscious lenses that allow you to perceive what is working, what you are thankful for, where you are successful in life, and to truly FEEL the awesome divine energy that surrounds you and permeates your very being. You no longer have to settle for a hard-working tough unloving life where you are just getting by. It is truly miraculous what manifests when you start seeing your world as a place that is full of joy and abundance.
As far as your financial situation, it doesn't really matter what has happened to you 10 years ago or what you were still struggling with yesterday. It doesn't matter if you have LOADS of money, are dirt poor, or are happy with just getting by. You can still step into abundance consciousness now and begin to FEEL that your life is rich and full of amazing opportunities. This FEELING will attract all the money and goodies you desire. It is O.K. to receive rich things. Even if you’ve never worked a hard day in your life, you DO deserve to take an abundant vacation. What matters most is that you DO NOT postpone another moment of your life and put on your abundance vision glasses today (and don’t take them off!)
Make this positive transformation right now by choosing to say “NO” to poverty thinking and focus on WHERE the abundance is in your life right now. It may surprise you to find that it is already here, flowing in several areas of your life. Remember that abundance comes in many forms. You can experience an abundance of love, support, creativity, laughter, friends, imagination, space, peacefulness, playfulness, energy, health, positive thinking, money, and the list goes on and on and on for infinity!
The surprising truth is that you naturally are the Spiritual Source of abundance itself. There are no limits on who you are, or who you can be. Your very essence is abundant in all ways. You, as an infinite timeless being, inherently embody an abundance of love, peace, strength, compassion, etc… Since you are abundance itself, all it takes to experience more abundance is to recognize and give thanks for all of the abundance that is already you. The more you become aware of your truly abundant inner nature, the more outer abundance will show up in your life. Once you realize and see how abundant you already are, you will be amazed at how quickly you will start to manifest even more abundance to you in the form of financial freedom, amazing relationships, incredible health, or tons of enthusiastic energy.
Your Enlightening Assignment: Set aside 20 minutes every day this week to practice this Abundance Vision exercise. Get out a piece of paper and write down all the different types of abundance that are in your life right now. Then, focus for the remaining time on how each one FEELS in your body when you think about it. Notice how good it feels to have each of these forms of abundance in your world. Allow yourself to feel expansive, rich and free your body with each form of abundance you find. The last 2 minutes of this exercise are spent in deep gratitude, thanking the Universe for providing all of this abundance. Enjoy! By Jafree Ozwald http://www.enlightenedmanifestor.com/ (This article and assignment is one of 52 in my NEW Enlightened Manifestor Program! Each piece has been polished, expanded and filled with the most practical down-to-earth awakening assignment to help you to utilize your natural manifesting powers. This program contains never before heard of manifesting meditations, enlightening information, and revolutionary techniques that will ignite the "Enlightened Manifestor" within you! This 52 week enlightenment program will uplift your consciousness and raise your vibration so you are effortlessly manifesting the life of your dreams)
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Monday, January 2, 2012
How to Receive Everything You Want in 2012 - Jafree Ozwald
"First figure out what you want. Second, you have to decide that you deserve it. Third, you have to believe you can get it. And, fourth, you have to have the guts to ask for it." ~ Barbara De Angelis
Get ready, you are entering the most exciting year of your life! There is nothing that is going to compare to the levels of love, spiritual evolution and conscious inner growth that will be available to you this next year. Yes, 2012 is here and the essential key to getting the most out of this awesome enlightening adventure will be in how conscious you truly are. The more unguarded, sensitive, truly present, and receptive you can be, the easier it will be to receive whatever your heart desires Make it your goal to allow your heart and mind to become fully unguarded this year. Be willing to let people in, allowing love to pour into you, through you, so that you can take your soul far beyond the ordinary experiences you've had before.
The moment you live in a deep receptivity, with your heart open to existence, you also become available to experiencing the divine all-intelligent God Source that is right here right now. From this deep spiritual connection you have the ability to receive anything you want in life. Yes, anything! Whatever your mind can believe is possible is possible. You can manifest anything when your vibration is high enough to not reject it. When you truly become surrendered to each moment, you become like two hands open with palms facing the sky, willing to feel the sunshine or the rain. From this place your gates are open wide for miraculous manifestations to magically occur. In truth, miracles are already happening to you now, its just that when your mind gets out of the way you'll be able to see all of them!!
Manifesting without effort simply happens when you stop guarding and defending your ego, and start being a vessel of pure love. Instead of thinking how others hurt you, think about how you can help them. Who is it that needs guarding anyway? Your soul is made of pure conscious light. Why on earth would you need to protect that? Stop trying to assert your power over or under others, pretending to be something smaller or bigger than who you are. You are already the God Source itself, so trying to be any one thing just means you don't realize the absolute vast being that you are. Simply give up this ego trip. That is all. This defensive guard at your gate can overlook the positive and negative commentary that others may unconsciously spew out. It really doesn't matter what anyone says, what's the most interesting thing of all is how YOU respond.
“That which is real cannot be threatened, and that which is unreal does not exist.” ~The Course In Miracles
Through a 100% pure receptivity to life you'll develop a laser-like focus for seeing the Divine in all people and the conversations you have with them. Others may spit out buckets of rubbish and all you hear are the awesome creative juices of life gurgling forth. Through full receptivity you stop resonating in judgment and fear. You begin to merge with the Divine and trust life completely. You realize your life purpose is to become aligned with the highest possible consciousness. This is the only way to know what is real. Otherwise this entire life is spent in following illusions. Use your heart to find your way through the mirage. Trust your body and its intuition. It is the MOST sacred vessel in this Universe. This body is The Divine and when you love it unconditionally, being sensitive to what its telling you, amazing manifestations can flow through it and into your life.
Being able to manifest anything in your life means you're aligned with one important understanding. That the Universe is deeply conscious, benevolent, and is always helping you create whatever is for your highest good. You may not always be certain what your "highest good" may be, and somedays you may think you know better than the Universe. You may believe your highest good comes in the form of a brand new shiny red sports car when in reality it may be the blue mini-van that breaks down every few weeks and forces you to pray. What you need and want in life are not always the same and will change until your vibration is soooo high that you stop placing your ego's demands over life. When you are totally surrendered to each experience, when your being is 100% available to the stars, sun, moon and each person to deeply touch you, then you will see how easy it is to manifest anything.
"Don't worry about what the world wants from you, worry about what makes you come more alive.
Because what the world really needs are people who are more alive." ~Laurence Le Shan
To begin receiving anything and everything you want this year, start with being crystal clear about what you are asking for. If you are wishy-washy in any way the Universe feels this, knowing you lack the understanding of the infinite divine soul you truly are, what you really want, and thus delays the manifestation. Divine Intelligence is always light years beyond what you can imagine it is. It knows you better than you know you. It wants you to be fully satisfied on the deepest levels. If God could form a desire, it'd be that you are soooooo ecstatic, over joyous, and orgasmically happy that you become a smiling laughing ball of bliss! The ironic thing is that this blissful state has nothing to do with manifesting physical results from your ego's desires, and everything to do with how fully you can show up in this present moment and be receptive to the Now.
Bliss happens instantly when you intimately realize how to surrender and be receptive. You are the soul creator of your entire reality AND you are being fed desires from your karmic past. Nothing is actually yours. This body, this mind, these thoughts...everything is borrowed. When you wake up to this, you'll be conscious enough to stop focusing your mind on what you don't want and start living each moment in total appreciation of what is. Your life will feel like a rose petal who is continuously bathing in the glorious morning sunshine. Then you'll know without a doubt just how amazing every moment of your life actually is.
I invite you to try something new this year. Anytime you ask for something, anything, from God or anyone...instead of thinking that you don't have that "thing" just yet, imagine and pretend that you do. Ask as if you already have it now. Ask for what you want by feeling as you already received it. It kind of feels like giving yourself a long warm cozy happy hug! Practice feeling this feeling all day long and you've set in motion the effortless manifestation process. The experience of receiving your every desire means you've realized that you are not separate from God and that you never were. The day you permanently retire those habitual thoughts which think you are "separate" from the Divine One Supreme Reality, then the real magical life you're here to live takes over.
"Stop imagining yourself being or doing this or that and the realization that you are the Source and heart of all will dawn on you." ~ Nisargadatta Maharaj
The day you've released all over-identification with ideas about your past and future, then pure joy can enter your heart and remain there forever. The only thing stopping you is the mind, and it can be very crazy. Trying to tame it can be like controlling a drunk monkey or 50 cats on acid. There is no need to try and control it. Just watch it, and see how it defines and creates your limitations, problems, solutions, and what your range of opportunities are in this moment. Identifying with past and future thoughts are whats creating a narrowed and shallow experience of life. It's the empty mind that is full of "no-thought" that has room for the unlimited experience of reality. Once you trust God enough to let go of controlling this mind, then the most exquisite experience of reality can fall into you.
This highly intelligent Universe knows the grand master plan of your life. It knows every intricate piece of the karmic game your soul is playing. The mind has such a limited perspective on Reality. It tends to demand things show up, and push against time (the Universe) to manifest something for your ego's gratification. Yet, when you are opening, surrendering, being willing to receive anything, you can see this bigger picture and feel grounded in this deeply benevolent Universe. From this place you see that each experience serves your highest souls evolution. Your mind may not always agree, it is allowed to have an opinion, yet just realize this is the nature of the argumentative mind. Find that inside you which has no argument for or against anything. Discover that which is truly at peace and all of the opportunities, people, and resources you desire will present themselves. All you need to do is relax, trust the process and ask with conviction, without any attachment, for what you truly desire. The Universe will support you in the most profound ways.
"Ask and ye shall receive, seek and ye shall find, knock and it shall be opened unto you." ~The Bible, Mathew 7:7
So what do you really really really want in your life? What you are really dreaming of? Check deep inside your heart, what is it saying? When you can be deeply honest with yourself about what you really want to be, do and have in life then every desire can crystallize into form. If you truly dive beneath the surface and see what your innermost being is after, you'll find your real desire is there. It's always the one that's truly juicy and without fear. Just do not be afraid of desire. Desire is that fire that keeps the karmic wheel spinning. We need it to give us direction and purpose. Stop hiding your true desires behind the veil of fear and judgment. Pull away the cloak and find out whatever it is that you truly want. Give yourself permission to honor your desires, know each one is very sacred, and trust that all your desires will manifest at the right time and place. This is one of the greatest gifts that you can give yourself on this amazing journey called life. Enjoy! Written by Jafree Ozwald http://www.supermanifestor.com/
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Sunday, December 18, 2011
Saying thank you ©
Some time ago, I wrote a piece entitled “Give without expectation” and as it’s now the season of “giving”, I want to write about saying thank you.
I fully understand that different cultures have different ways of expressing connection with people, as well as different views about what is considered appropriate behaviour, what constitutes manners, what etiquette is all about, how to implement it, etc. Heck, even within the same family unit one finds differences about all this
J
But back to the general population ….
For example, I’ve read that some Christians apparently want God to get the glory for everything that happens and everything that is given and received. Okay, but doesn’t God work through flesh and blood people? Let’s thank God by all means, but let’s also thank the person God created ….
I’ve also read that in the Chinese culture when friends and family members give to one another, even if it’s something simple like passing the salt to someone, it isn’t deemed necessary to say “thank you” because people give to one another, they do things for one another, and “thank you” is superfluous.
This brings me to my understanding of “small town mentality”. I don’t mean small town mentality in the sense of people being small-minded, not worldly, being judgemental, or everyone knowing everyone’s business. No. I mean “small town mentality” in the sense of an attitude, a way of being and living, the sense that family is primary, is an insular unit made up of members of one’s family where everyone looks out for one another, but where outsiders are nevertheless tolerated and treated with respect. And I mean it in the sense of these types of people doing things for others without expecting or needing to be thanked because they know that the other would do the same for them.
I’m all for family, I’m all for looking out for people, and I’m all for knowing people are “there” for one another but knowing that someone would do the same for me doesn’t preclude thanking the person. In my view, saying thanks is a way of acknowledging in a tangible way that the person gave something, was thoughtful, helped, did something good/nice/considerate/unexpected.
Ah, acknowledgement and appreciation – I’m sure there are people in the world who have no need for appreciation and acknowledgement (the classic introverts). Good for them. They have saved themselves a whole lot of discomfort by not placing themselves at the mercy of anyone who has the power to acknowledge and appreciate them. But in this day of such utter chaos and disconnection in the world, isn’t it a good feeling actively to show appreciation to others, irrespective of how important they are to us but especially those who are important to us?
And then there are degrees of thanking people I think, e.g. saying thanks after dinner as you fly out to your car is definitely considered having said thanks. Should you then follow that up with a phone call, or note or something? I think so, depending on circumstances and who is involved. I personally hate not getting that subsequent call, text, or note. I’m not talking about crazy, formal, sometimes incomprehensible etiquette; I’m just referring to simple good manners, being considerate towards people, and being more aware.
So I want to ask: Why don’t people say thank you, apart from just not having good manners?
Do they feel that by saying thank you they are obligated in some way?
Do they feel it diminishes them to say thank you?
Do they feel it is unnecessary because the giver should know they appreciate what was given?
Do they feel that if they didn’t ask for something or could do it for themselves, or the giver also enjoyed XYZ, or the giver was the one who initiated XYZ that they don’t need to say thank you?
Do they feel that being given something automatically means that the giver wants something from them, so they don’t say thank you and that ends the interaction and what the other might expect?
Do people have such a sense of entitlement that receiving is a given, with no thanks required or even entertained?
Do people have such a low self-esteem that they would feel they doesn’t deserve to be given anything, and having also to say thank you just muddles things further?
I find all of this curious. We know how many thousands of people thank the Lord every day or whichever higher power they believe in. We know that there is even a national holiday in parts of the world called Thanksgiving. But we don’t always and appropriately say thank you to the people with whom we share the planet.
I loved what I heard from a relationship expert recently (Wendy Walsh) – that giving and connection should be done in a spirit of not keeping score (this isn't about keeping score); we give to express gratitude (yes, so could we also say thanks in order to express gratitude?) and that giving doesn’t need to be reciprocal (as in like for like - sure, but isn't it great to acknowledge the other?)
Thanking in my view is a form of giving – giving back to the person, giving of our own thoughtful energy, giving acknowledgement to someone. But we’ve rapidly become a species of takers in all its manifestations, and we quite simply couldn't be bothered with some of the more delicate human interactions.
So what do we do?
Do we stop giving, thereby depriving ourselves of the pleasure associated with giving? Depends.
Do we make the other person feel bad? Yes! Actually, I suppose, no …
Do we try to change the other person? Good luck with that.
Or do we focus on the great qualities and attributes of the "lazy & tardy thanker", and take our minds and hearts off the lack of (proper) thanks or the delay in being thanked? Yep, this might be the way to do it.
Beba Papakyriakou (BA; BA Hons Psychology)
Sunday 18 December 2011
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I fully understand that different cultures have different ways of expressing connection with people, as well as different views about what is considered appropriate behaviour, what constitutes manners, what etiquette is all about, how to implement it, etc. Heck, even within the same family unit one finds differences about all this
J
But back to the general population ….
For example, I’ve read that some Christians apparently want God to get the glory for everything that happens and everything that is given and received. Okay, but doesn’t God work through flesh and blood people? Let’s thank God by all means, but let’s also thank the person God created ….
I’ve also read that in the Chinese culture when friends and family members give to one another, even if it’s something simple like passing the salt to someone, it isn’t deemed necessary to say “thank you” because people give to one another, they do things for one another, and “thank you” is superfluous.
This brings me to my understanding of “small town mentality”. I don’t mean small town mentality in the sense of people being small-minded, not worldly, being judgemental, or everyone knowing everyone’s business. No. I mean “small town mentality” in the sense of an attitude, a way of being and living, the sense that family is primary, is an insular unit made up of members of one’s family where everyone looks out for one another, but where outsiders are nevertheless tolerated and treated with respect. And I mean it in the sense of these types of people doing things for others without expecting or needing to be thanked because they know that the other would do the same for them.
I’m all for family, I’m all for looking out for people, and I’m all for knowing people are “there” for one another but knowing that someone would do the same for me doesn’t preclude thanking the person. In my view, saying thanks is a way of acknowledging in a tangible way that the person gave something, was thoughtful, helped, did something good/nice/considerate/unexpected.
Ah, acknowledgement and appreciation – I’m sure there are people in the world who have no need for appreciation and acknowledgement (the classic introverts). Good for them. They have saved themselves a whole lot of discomfort by not placing themselves at the mercy of anyone who has the power to acknowledge and appreciate them. But in this day of such utter chaos and disconnection in the world, isn’t it a good feeling actively to show appreciation to others, irrespective of how important they are to us but especially those who are important to us?
And then there are degrees of thanking people I think, e.g. saying thanks after dinner as you fly out to your car is definitely considered having said thanks. Should you then follow that up with a phone call, or note or something? I think so, depending on circumstances and who is involved. I personally hate not getting that subsequent call, text, or note. I’m not talking about crazy, formal, sometimes incomprehensible etiquette; I’m just referring to simple good manners, being considerate towards people, and being more aware.
So I want to ask: Why don’t people say thank you, apart from just not having good manners?
Do they feel that by saying thank you they are obligated in some way?
Do they feel it diminishes them to say thank you?
Do they feel it is unnecessary because the giver should know they appreciate what was given?
Do they feel that if they didn’t ask for something or could do it for themselves, or the giver also enjoyed XYZ, or the giver was the one who initiated XYZ that they don’t need to say thank you?
Do they feel that being given something automatically means that the giver wants something from them, so they don’t say thank you and that ends the interaction and what the other might expect?
Do people have such a sense of entitlement that receiving is a given, with no thanks required or even entertained?
Do people have such a low self-esteem that they would feel they doesn’t deserve to be given anything, and having also to say thank you just muddles things further?
I find all of this curious. We know how many thousands of people thank the Lord every day or whichever higher power they believe in. We know that there is even a national holiday in parts of the world called Thanksgiving. But we don’t always and appropriately say thank you to the people with whom we share the planet.
I loved what I heard from a relationship expert recently (Wendy Walsh) – that giving and connection should be done in a spirit of not keeping score (this isn't about keeping score); we give to express gratitude (yes, so could we also say thanks in order to express gratitude?) and that giving doesn’t need to be reciprocal (as in like for like - sure, but isn't it great to acknowledge the other?)
Thanking in my view is a form of giving – giving back to the person, giving of our own thoughtful energy, giving acknowledgement to someone. But we’ve rapidly become a species of takers in all its manifestations, and we quite simply couldn't be bothered with some of the more delicate human interactions.
So what do we do?
Do we stop giving, thereby depriving ourselves of the pleasure associated with giving? Depends.
Do we make the other person feel bad? Yes! Actually, I suppose, no …
Do we try to change the other person? Good luck with that.
Or do we focus on the great qualities and attributes of the "lazy & tardy thanker", and take our minds and hearts off the lack of (proper) thanks or the delay in being thanked? Yep, this might be the way to do it.
Beba Papakyriakou (BA; BA Hons Psychology)
Sunday 18 December 2011
Your date with destiny. Make your dreams come true in 2012
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